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I Googled “How to make a closing argument” the other night, and an eHow article well summarized what other sites pointed out. Their five tips there could be boiled down to:

  • Thank and reconnect with the jury
  • Summarize your entire case
  • State everything simply; it’s past the time for complex legal definitions
  • Refer to your strongest examples of (physical) evidence
  • Undercut your opponent’s closing arguments

At this point, you probably don’t have a lot of time left to make your “closing arguments” to your college ministry for the semester. But these tips actually may provide a handy little springboard to thinking through what we want to accomplish in the final days, before students head home and spend weeks away from their new collegiate life! Whether in a final message, a quick recap during the Christmas party, a well crafted email, or a letter sent home, we’ve got the chance to “close the deal” on everything God has been teaching our students.

Here’s what those five points suggest for our own campus ministry “closing arguments”:

1. Reconnect with students

For all the preaching, discipling, serving together, pushing, exhorting, and other impacting you’ve done, it might be worth reminding students that you really do love them and appreciate their involvement in the college ministry.

2. Remind students

I think most of us would be depressed by students lack of recall about what we taught them in large group and small group meetings this semester. Why not spend some moments – or an email or two – reminding them of the things God called you to deliver this semester? Perhaps a last message of this – rather than one NEW thing – could be the best course?

3. Stay simple

Blunt. Clear. With definite application. We really want students to use everything they gained this semester, both from various teachings as well as your experiences together. So it’s probably time to be simple, straightforward, and solid.

4. Get sticky

We don’t just want students to remember what we’ve taught them now, we want it to stick all the way through Finals and the Break and into next semester and all through life… right? So just like a lawyer might point back to the strongest, most shocking evidence, we can very purposely help students remember. Maybe it’s a series of word pictures from the messages, perhaps a handy-dandy memory aid, maybe just the boldest examples you can muster. Whatever the case, now might just be the time to get sticky.

5. Fight the troubles they’ll face

We should remember that the Enemy will start his own argument as soon as we’re done – and he’ll keep fighting all Winter Break. In our “closing arguments,” we should help students prepare for the coming onslaught – which will come against the very things God has been doing this semester. What temptations, trials, and other turmoil will threaten to undermine what you’ve taught them or they’ve learned this semester? Look ahead to the fight, and arm your students accordingly!

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Over the next week, I hope to focus several posts on ways to successfully finish out this portion of the school year, before all the students head to Winter Break and ultimately into their next semester / quarter.

This theme presupposes something that I’m not sure all of us believe: The last days can be used strategically in college ministry, just like the first days of the school year.

So without adding any sort of “fluff” to today’s post, I want to leave a question to ponder on this first school day after Thanksgiving:

How well have you strategized the last days of your semester?

If this is something you haven’t thought through, I urge you to consider it. Or if you’re simply “running great college ministry plays” that have worked before, consider auditing those ideas to make sure it’s your best strategy this time around. What goals do you have in mind for these two weeks? What do you want students to depart knowing, feeling, and/or doing? How are you going to get them there?

I believe how we spend the last two weeks of a semester or quarter can make a lot of difference in students’ lives.

Enjoy the pondering. If I can help, let me know.

And stay tuned for some thoughts on this lil’ topic.

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Like you, I’ll be taking the next few days off and hangin’ with family. So the next post should come on Monday!

But before I go, something to chew on over the break… with another break just over the horizon. It’s this week’s Fridea. Even though it’s Wednesday.

The Fridea? Intentionally prepare students for spiritual success during the Winter Break.

I hope our campus ministries aren’t just about “running the right plays” while students are around and then “planning next semester” when they’re gone. Our students will live several weeks of life away from us; as their main spiritual shepherds, I believe we’re accountable for how they do even in their absence.

I don’t hear this topic discussed all that often, and it’s easier to think about how students are going to use their three summer months well than to ponder the one winter month (or less for those on the Quarter System). But this is a really critical period for students:

  • For freshmen, this is their first lengthy time back home. Even those from nearby may have an awkward time adjusting – all the more for those who have been away from home.
  • Students are back around their “old lives” – friends, family, locations – that may tempt them to backtrack in their spiritual walk.
  • Many students don’t have college ministers at home; even if they do, it’s very hard to connect much during the Winter Break.
  • Christmastime can bring all sorts of weirdness / depression all on its own.
  • Connections with family and extended family may offer numerous witnessing opportunities.
  • Students can easily lose all the spiritual ground they’ve gained in the fall semester during this time.
  • On the other hand, this slow month can offer LOTS of time for impact and growth, if that opportunity is taken.
  • Students’ spiritual success during Winter Break directly affects your ministry’s entire Spring.

Like those little toy cars, your students may need to be “wound up” with intentional impact so they can putt-putt-putt successfully through the Winter Break. And of course we don’t want them just to coast – we want to prepare them to grow… and come back stronger than ever when they return.

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As Exploring College Ministry’s 9-day Movie Week concludes, Part 2 of the Millennial aspects of The Social Network. Hopefully it’s good exercise for all of us who work with Gen Y! (Part 1 can be found here.)

Hiding behind technology (in plain view)

Not only is technology an innate part of the Millennials’ world (as discussed yesterday), it’s clear it serves to reduice inhibitions for many members of this generation. The lives they live out online are surprisingly brazen, as they simultaneously hide behind and expose boldly via technology – be it blogging, texting, Facebook, YouTube, or other stages.

The Social Network highlights this theme throughout, and the whole course of the movie (and ultimately Facebook’s, too) is set following Mark Zuckerburg’s night of being “drunk and angry and stupid… and blogging.” Later, he’s scorned for acting “as if every thought that tumbles through your head would be a crime not to publish,” but that’s just the way many of our Millennial friends live their lives online, no? And yet those thoughts aren’t always true, either, and the movie certainly suggests that Zuckerberg found texts and emails to be his preferred form of deception.

The team’s the thing

The Social Network also highlights the important role of the team in the Gen Y world, and one of the greatest “sins” of the movie is isolationism. A “success film” for other generations might focus on the one individual who invented or conquered or innovated and celebrate his or her solitary accomplishment largely because it was unique. Here, the whole movie hinges on just which teammates would be / should be / truly were involved in the creation of Facebook – from its humble beginnings in the ultimate “team environment,” a college dorm room. And loneliness isn’t just sad in this film – it’s something to be pitied.

Many Millennials have grown up on soccer teams and are a-okay with going forward in a project or in life… together. They value a team approach to life… and that leads to the next observation.

Inclusion, invitation, and friends

If functioning as a team is a high priority, then inclusion is a highest one, and The Social Network may be more about this theme than any other. The first scene is about inclusion, as is the very last. And in the middle, Mark Zuckerberg and friends create a website that would redefine “friendship” and “inclusion” and “invitations” on a worldwide scale.

What’s funny is that for Millennials there’s a kind of inclusion that doesn’t necessarily imply exclusion. Sure, there will always be “exclusive clubs” and such, but this movie very explicitly circumvents even those venues; when everyone’s able to Facebook me and find out if my relationship’s “complicated,” then everybody’s rather included in my life (and I with theirs), right?

In this movie the computer nerds aren’t in a lower social strata than the partiers… and ultimately become the partiers themselves. Millennials want to fit in like anyone does, but the iPod-shuffle of their interests means they’re already included – probably many times over, in various interest groups and activity groups and social segments. Of course, this all means the despair of exclusion may sting still more, and many Millennials – like Zuckerberg in this movie – may seek the inclusions they most desire by any means they can.

Changing the world (overnight)

Inside these varied interests, Millennials have a desire to change the world – and a belief they can do it. But they also believe it can be done very, very soon. What Zuckerberg creates overnight in his dorm room (a predecessor to Facebook) riles up a whole campus; what he creates in a semester changed the whole world. And only seven years later, it has its very own movie!

For Millennials, this isn’t a shocking development. “This is how it happens,” they may very well believe. And they work like it, too… with Mountain Dew, alcohol, or other drugs (all amply portrayed in this film) enabling the work-hard-play-hard lifestyle they feel they can / should / must live.

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Movie Week at Exploring College Ministry continues…

Most everything about The Social Network is successful, but its real achievement stretches beyond the Facebook story. Decades from now, when we’ve all forgotten what Facebook even was, The Social Network will still tell us what it was to be part of the generation sociologists are calling the Millenials.

-from Alissa Wilkinson’s Christianity Today review of The Social Network

I wholeheartedly agree with Wilkinson (although Facebook could have more staying power than she imagines). And not only does The Social Network masterfully reflect the Millennials / “Gen Y” in the story it recounts, but it also does so in the way that story is presented.

As I argued last week, pondering these things is great exercise for any of us with Millennials in our audience. For us who are college ministers and youth ministers, they are our audience – and the young adult ministers are gaining more and more each year, too. [To see my specific thoughts on The Social Network and college ministry, click here.]

Currency is currency

One of the first things I realized while watching Social Network was how recently these events took place. It seems almost uncomfortable to watch a recounting of world-changing events (they were, after all) that began only seven years ago. Sure, movies and TV shows and newsy retellings of recent events aren’t uncommon. But Facebook is so enormous and yet still feels so young, with an evolution that still feels so as-we-speak, that having its “creation myth” on the big screen already was striking.

But for Millennials, I imagine it’s less so. They appreciate currency, up-to-the-minuteness. The online world in which Generation Y lives is a current world, fast-moving to the point of nausea. They can catch the newest news online, then return in a few hours for all the still-newer news. Facebook itself provides one of the most obvious currents of currency through its status updates – which cleverly are mirrored onscreen in the film itself. Millennials live updated… and they like it that way.

It makes all the sense in the world for Aaron Sorkin to pen the dialogue in a movie about Facebook; only his brand of quick, snappy back-and-forth would rightly mimic what happens on the newsfeed of your average Millennial Facebook user.

Connection is the crux

Interestingly enough, when there isn’t this sort of rapid-fire “connecting” taking place (either virtually or in-person), the remaining “real life” is slower. The scenes we’d expect to be the most active – wild college parties, sports, running across a college campus – actually provide comparatively serene interludes between this movie’s busier talkative moments. (Making the point all the more explicit, the parties and athletics are actually shown at points in slow motion, juxtaposed with the rapid technological advances happening elsewhere.)

So whether in-person or technology-aided, interpersonal connections are the crux of this movie; chatting with a girl, plotting with classmates, gaining an audience with the head of Harvard, even legal depositions – these are the exciting parts of this movie.

Millennials thrive on this sort of connectivity, having access to what everyone in their own world is doing or blogging or thinking… and allowing hundreds and thousands to have access to their own lives, too. “Private behavior is a relic of a time gone by,” the movie remarks, and it’s right – at least for the bulk of the Millennial generation.

Technology isn’t an “extra”

While the face-to-face moments are this film’s meat, it’s ultimately a movie about a technology that changed the world by broadening those interpersonal connections and making them easier at the same time. And this innate technological bent, of course, is Millennial, too; the movie makes it clear that there was pervasive technology – the movie notes MySpace, Friendster, Live Journal, and texting – long before Facebook came around.

Further, even the subject matter should cause us to take note, as Justin Pasternack writes:

On paper, this is a big Hollywood movie about a website. Acknowledge how strange that is, but then remember that it is increasingly on websites, and on Facebook, that we live. Once, we inhabited farms, then cities, Justin Timberlake’s character says at one point. “And someday,” he proclaims, “we’ll be living on the Internet!”

Facebook fit a generation already primed to live life online; as the first Millennial collegians made their way through college, this site gave them the chance to do that like never before.

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Last night, I read through nearly all of C. S. Lewis’s The Voyage of the Dawn Treader. (I had read two chapters earlier in the week; the final 14 took something like 4 hours. It’s a quick read.) I’m actually getting the chance to take my own advice and lead a little reading group in the college ministry I volunteer with. On December 10th (or thereabouts), we’ll be attending the movie, too.

After reading the book again, I figured in the midst of Movie Week I would reiterate that these Chronicles of Narnia books provide excellent fodder for short-run discussion groups. You could easily get students to read this (over the Thanksgiving Break, perhaps?) and still have a meeting or two to discuss the themes. (Read my thoughts on doing that here.) Or if you need a good message or two before the semester or quarter ends, you could always zero in on Voyage themes if they fit where you’re taking your students.

Yes, The Voyage of the Dawn Treader is a kids’ book. But it’s still C. S. Lewis, and the themes Lewis brings up – and story as a whole – can still be extremely impactful for college students (and their ministers).

If I can help by sharing what my group ends up discussing, just shoot me a message. (It does help a little bit that I’m fairly familiar with Lewis’s writings, but you sure don’t have to be in order to find the themes.) Our group starts Monday, and I’ll be glad to fill you on the directions I’m thinking about. Just let me know.

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As you may have noticed, it’s Movie Week here at Exploring College Ministry. But today is also Friday, which means it’s time for a movie-related Fridea!

This one may be a little bit of a downer. But if doing right is always doing best – we teach our students that! – then this Fridea is as applicable as any method or “Best Practice” I could put before you.

The Fridea?

Obey copyright law (like with movies).

Did you know it’s usually illegal – like really, truly against the law – to show a DVD in a big, public college ministry setting without a license? Doesn’t matter if you’re charging; doesn’t matter if you’re doing it for the sake of ministry or education. It’s wrong.

Since it’s movie week, movies are the focus. But I could just as easily discuss the rules about music or TV or computer software or the many other things that are copyrighted. Pictures on the internet are usually copyrighted, too, which is why I have to be selective about the pictures I use on the blog. Having a © sign or an FBI Warning isn’t required for something to be copyrighted, either.

I get it. The rules are annoying, I agree. They’re quite restrictive. They’ve kept me – many times – from doing what I wanted to in a campus ministry activity. In fact, they came to mind only after I had half-written today’s Fridea; as it turns out, I would have been encouraging a lot of people to break the law. Bummer. And while there’s definitely room under “fair use” for implementing copyrighted materials in a college ministry, the “fair” in “fair use” is determined by law, not by us.

A great explanation for the movie rules – AND how to get licenses – can be found over at Kansas State’s site. (Of course, it’s a sad day if college campuses are following the law-of-the-land more closely than their campus ministries.)

I realize that this is not popular to talk about, and that probably some of you like me less after reading this. I’m sure not trying to hold it over anybody’s head or play “holier than thou” games. But I’d be remiss if I never mentioned this, because in our field it comes up an awful lot. It’s not legalism. Just legal.

And of course, this gives you permission to hold me accountable. Do it. Do it.

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Don’t get me wrong: When I attend movies or watch ‘em at home, I usually do it for entertainment. But there are times when I watch something for the sake of ministry or for other spiritual edification – like watching The Social Network for the second time this week, or viewing Temple Grandin with my autistic friend.

It’s Movie Week here at the blog, starting with Monday’s post!

But even when I’m not “on the clock,” watching primarily for these reasons, I would hope that my calling – to the field of college ministry – wouldn’t ever be left too far behind. So lots of times a movie surprises me, because I notice something (or lots of things) that hone my ministry skills in some way or another.

These days, there are lots of movies that give us the chance to learn about, ponder, or (re)discover Millennials… which just happens to be the only sociological generation we campus ministers tend to impact these days. (And it will be for another decade!) Because the oldest of those guys and gals are in their late 20s, Millennials are not only being marketed to, but their ethos is permeating society and is reflected all over. Including in modern film.

So looking for Millennialness in the movies accomplishes at least the following:

  • We are reminded of what Millennials are generally like, as films reflect the members of this generation.
  • We are reminded of what Millennials want and need, as films either reflect that or try to offer that.
  • We see how others (filmmakers, in this case) are targeting Millennials.
  • When a film does well among this generation, we have the chance to determine why a movie “fits” or “speaks to” the Millennials.

If there’s a good perpetual training regimen for college ministers, I would say one powerful – but also fun – exercise is understanding our students through the light of popular culture. It takes a little practice and is helped by a little outside info, but remembering to chew on this idea – whether you’re watching The Social Network or Horton Hears a Who – will get your college-ministry-mind in even better shape.

I have indeed looked at Horton Hears a Who through Millennial lenses, along with a small smattering of other films. (I’d write more, but it’s kind of time-intensive.) If you wanna practice seeing the Millennialness in the movies, you should be able to rent most of these! Here’s the list:

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On Monday, I reviewed the new documentary Cool It; today I wanted to list some ways we might use it in our campus ministries.

Basically, Cool It is a helpful primer on environmental concerns that also provides an intriguing critique – aimed not so much at the prevalent science as much as at the present attempts to deal with climate change. (Remember, the movie doesn’t deny climate change is happening, and it doesn’t deny it’s a problem. This is not a particularly “right wing” film.)

A random example of the Cool It approach: Lomborg, the movie’s protagonist and narrator, argues that while present efforts to slow climate change will perhaps save one polar bear a year, many more polar bears would be saved if we simply quit shooting lots and lots of them.

There’s lots of neato inventions, too. And animals. I like animals.

If your college ministry needs to talk about this issue or if you’re on a campus that might be drawn to these sorts of discussions, I encourage you at least to go see Cool It. Then you can decide if you want to make use of it and/or the Bible-based discussion guide provided by Reel Truths (which doesn’t look like it requires actually seeing the film).

In any case, here are some ways Cool It might be a help to you as a college minister:

  • It may help you catch up in the climate change discussion, regardless of what you believe. (It sure helped me catch up!) Do you know what “cap and trade” is? How much money is being spent on this issue? What happened in Copenhagen just this year? Understanding these climate change issues will at least help you discuss it, as needed, among your campus tribe.
  • In general, something like this is great for kicking off discussion about how and why we help the world (both its people and the planet). Watching this movie with a bunch of students and then discussing it (even just over yogurt) would be a fruitful time.
  • Specifically, Cool It proposes a vital question: What does it mean to truly impact our world for good? As Christians, we should be leading the charge to love in deeds and truth and not just “words and tongue.” As one person in the movie puts it, “It’s not about feeling good about yourself, it’s about actually doing good.” Could that be any more relevant to college students on our campuses?
  • Another specific application from this movie is simply being wise about our stances. The movie helps (it seems) to balance out the arguments. If anybody needs to learn always to back up their zeal with knowledge AND not immediately assume that the popular or emotional arguments are automatically correct , it’s collegians.
  • It’s a movie! And that provides a natural way to get students involved – including students who wouldn’t normally be interested. Couple that with discussion, and you’ve got a neat springboard. The study guide puts it this way:

While a movie provides the framework of discussion, the Bible informs the nature and the direction of the discussion. Your goal through each discussion, therefore, is not necessarily to cover every theme from the movie or to get to every movie clip. Instead, it should be to use the themes of the movie to point each person in your group to God.

I’d encourage you to check out the study guide. As I skimmed it, I was impressed – it’s got links to movie clips, great discussion starters, and so on. They’ve made it easy to discuss this from a spiritual standpoint, with Christians and non-Christians alike.

The movie’s main site is here, and you can find out if it’s in your city now or is opening this weekend.

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I went to see The Social Network again yesterday; I knew I wanted to blog some more about it. (See my original thoughts here.) If you haven’t seen it, I highly encourage it (just know that it’s a very solid PG-13) – and hopefully today’s notes will help you see something in it that would be easy to miss in all the fast-paced dialogue.

There is much that could be said here, but before looking at how The Social Network captures the Millennial generation we serve, I wanted to point out it’s also a great movie about college. And what it shouts loudly (to those who will listen) is that college ministry is vital… and awesome.

1. We serve at colleges.

Beautiful Boston, with its outrageous number of college campuses, figures heavily in this film – including the gorgeous Harvard campus and that whole Cambridge university district. Quaint little college-town Palo Alto shows up, too, and we’re hanging out in a house two blocks from the Stanford campus. We hear of Yale and Columbia, Oxford and London School of Economics, even Baylor(!).

But it’s Harvard that we see most, and we observe little we couldn’t see at our own schools – the wild party scenes, the rigorous academics, the fraternity world, the administration, the traditions, the awkwardly communal communities called dorms (or “halls,” as the case may be). And while this might not be exactly true of each of our campuses, we can’t help but stand in awe that our jobs take us to places like Harvard, where “nineteen Nobel Laureates, fifteen Pulitzer Prize winners, two future Olympians, and a movie star” (and the founder of Facebook) make up the campus tribe.

Can you believe that we get to serve here?

2. We impact college students.

It’s interesting to imagine what Facebook’s beginnings would have looked like if it had been started by guys even a little bit older. 25? 30?

Instead, it was started by college students. It was reported in a college newspaper. They run around changing the worlds and refuse to “let the adults take it from here,” and we see the consequences – good and bad.

And this movie does a great job of showing us all the reasons our work – because it’s among college students – is especially vital. Zeal without wisdom. Entitlement without evidence. Finding romance (however painful or temporary). Seeking, hoping for, doing anything for friendship. Bold, brash, life-ruining, life-establishing. With potential and promise and even present productivity that isn’t matched. By anybody.

And our ministries intersect with them! Right there!

3. We impact Millennials.

This movie, as Alissa Wilkinson wrote for Christianity Today, will for decades “tell us what it was to be part of the generation sociologists are calling the Millennials. ” We have every right to be thrilled that not only do we get to serve college students, but we get to serve in this era, when Millennials have so much to offer the world and our ministries.

More on that in this post.

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